Well, it hasn't been easy. CJ and I still talk and see each other on occasion, its been a little over a year that we have known each other. We really enjoy each other's company. There is no future of a relationship for us, we are clear on that. I started seeing someone else who I had known for 4.5 years before we started flirting with each other and eventually dating. We did the off and on thing for a about 10 months and I just couldn't continue on that emotional roller coaster with someone who wasn't sure he wanted to be in a relationship. I am an all or nothing kind of woman. I don't want to play ridiculous childish games. I am happy to report that I have been able to maintain friendships with these two men. They were both important in my life and there are no hard feelings between us. I have been off that dating site for about 10 months now and have maintained friendships with some of the guys I met. Especially one in particular, Brian (not to be confu